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Life’s Ups and Downs

Wednesday, January 23rd, 2008

stock-market-chart.jpgIt’s so predictable that life will be unpredictable.  Life has these ups and downs and the mountain top can be followed by the deep valley in a very short time, it seems.  A project you thought was going great crashes and burns; and then it resurrects from the dead!  The stock market with your retirement funds invested in it takes a nosedive.  A relationship that you really care about may be up one day and down the next.  Mood swings are just that, swings!  They rise and fall with the next event or phone call or email.  If we attach ourselves to them, our emotional selves that is, we will rise or fall with the events of the day. 

But what if we connected our hearts to a secure place that never changes?  Ah, see what I’m getting at?  What if our lives, futures, pasts, our sense of well being were attached to the Lord Himself?  The Bible says He never changes.  So unlike our lives, God does not go up and down with every wave.  And if we have a personal, strong and current relationship with Him, we’ll be steadier, more able to handle the good and the difficult.  Reconnect with the Lord.  Set your treasures down next to His throne and trust Him.  Rely on the Lord for wisdom, for strength, for a rescue or for a reality check.  He is a Rock to all who anchor their lives with Him.  PB

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He came to us as a baby…

Wednesday, December 19th, 2007

baby-sleeping.jpgWhen we think that the God of the universe, the One Who holds all of life in His Hands, would come and live among men, we ought to be astounded.  God is so large, magnificent, and to think He would condescend to our status is almost beyond thinking.  He made plans to be with us, to feel what we feel and to understand what we understand.  But wouldn’t you have expected Him to come as a full grown man?  Like the angels that appeared in the Old and New Testament stories.  You know, one minute here and another gone, but in between doing business effectively.  God actually chose the higher way; go figure!  He completely humbled Himself and took on the form of a man and came the way we all come, as a baby.  A baby.  So that means He experienced all that we experience and can relate to everything we go through.  And He did it sinlessly, aiming to be the sacrificial lamb on the cross, literally carrying all of man’s sins on His back.  How great is this God?  So great that He humbled Himself and became one of us in order to relate to and then save as many as would repent and believe.  He came to us…as a Baby.  PB

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Time’s running out?

Wednesday, December 12th, 2007

hourglass.jpgWith a little less than three weeks left in the year, I’m beginning to mentally put the year 2007 to rest.  Wow.  It seems like yesterday that we started this year with prayers and plans and, yes, the Lord was faithful to bless what we did this past year in so many ways.  We’ve seen Him move, saving some, healing others, restoring relationships and renewing hearts.   But is His work “done” for the year?  He is so great that He transcends time and space and reaches into the hearts and lives of people, no matter what time of year it is.  It seems to me at this moment that the calendar is, well, so artificial.  Because to the Lord Who lives outside of time, His work is continuous.  In other words, He is always saving, healing and delivering, without interuption.  So is the year gone and His work finished in some way?  Yes and no.  The calendar year is almost done.  But He continues on until the return of His Son, acting as the High Priest, the Great Shepherd, the Redeemer of mankind.   There are people that God is working directly with right now.  May we see it and be His willing vessels to be used in His continual work.  PB 

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I’ve got a confession to make…

Wednesday, November 28th, 2007

broken-christmas-ornament.jpgI really don’t like Christmas.  Yeah, I know, I’m a pastor and I’m supposed to like Christmas!  But if I’m going to be honest with you and let you know what’s on my heart, I’ve got to tell you that the period of time between Thanksgiving and Christmas is not my favorite!  Oh don’t get me completely wrong.  I love that Jesus was born and it’s right to celebrate His birth, that’s a no brainer!  And I love my family, natural and church family, that we spend more time with.  But all the expectations, the commercialization of the season, the disappointments many folks feel around the holidays and the way that many valuable pursuits get put on hold, just drag me down.  Do any of you feel that way too?  What can we do to change all of this?

Well, I think the first thing we can do is to focus on the Lord Himself.  So that’s going to call for some honest to goodness prayer time.  Time where we refuse to allow the busyness to pull us away from Him personally.  And the next thing we can do is to simplify.  I’m actually going to attempt to refuse some of the expectations of the season, especially the unspoken ones, and just do what’s meaningful in a Kingdom and family way.  And next, I’m going to laugh a little more and celebrate what the Lord has done all year long.  Our enemy wants to take away from us the taste of victory, the thrill of knowing that God has been and is working with us.  Like this weekend, for instance.  I’m hoping that we all are totally thrilled over the 11 water baptisms this weekend, young and older alike.  For another, we’ve got the Extravaganza next weekend and I’m believing that we’ll see the Lord change some lives through that production.  Bottom line?  We can’t let the enemy take away our joys over what the Lord has done and is doing.  Hey, I’m feeling better already!

So yeah, Christmas isn’t my biggest thrill.  But seeing Jesus work in lives is.  I think that I’ll try to get my eyes and heart in the right place this year and look to see a difference.  Join me?   Forget the cookies and let’s take His Presence in our world as our preoccupation.  PB

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

cornucopia.jpgThis is a great holiday.  It always brings good emotions to the surface in me and I just can’t stop being, well, grateful.  The fact that Jesus would have a relationship with me.  My sweet wife Robin.  Our kids and now we have a daughter-in-law, Chelsea, who is such a perfect addition to our family.  The church and the growing family that’s constantly impressing me and encouraging me to go on.  My partner in ministry, Mark DuPre. 

Isn’t the Lord good to us?  We have so much!  A few years ago Robin and I found a decoarative plate while vacationing in Indiana.  It simply says “Gratitude.”  Gratitude to Whom?  To the Lord Himself, the Source of all life.  No, the Pilgrims didn’t give thanks to the Indians, primarily.  They and we give thanks to the Lord.  For everything.  PB

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God is so Faithful!

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

vancouver-skyline.jpgRobin and I are home!  And we had a great time, albeit exhausting, with brethren in Washington, DC and in Vancouver, BC, Canada. The picture here is of the trees on the mountains outside of Vancouver. 

The bottom line is that God is faithful!  We shared our hearts out with all these wonderful folks and the Lord moved.  There were precious times with leadership and significant times with everyone.  Robin and I were able to give out some of what the Lord has given us and it really felt good to do that.  Rob and I tag teamed in Vancouver to share some of the principles regarding male/female relationships with a group of young folks in their church.  That was especially gratifying, as we have a passion in that area of life. 

We’re so glad to be home, however!  We were so happy to see the kids and to be with our friends here.  Rob and I took the girls out for breakfast the morning after we arrived home and let them go to school late so that we could catch them up on our adventures.  Thank you Lord for speaking to our hearts that we should go in the first place, for going with us and for taking us home, having made a difference in precious lives in other parts of the continent!  PB

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I’ve been asked to do something a little beyond me…

Wednesday, October 31st, 2007

airplane.jpgI’m sitting here in the Charlotte, NC airport just waiting for the next plane.  I planned this visit to see our friends the Arendas’ before I knew the challenges that lay before me. I’m really glad that I could pray with Larry and Carole and have the Lord speak to me through them.   You see, I have two ministry opportunities the next two weekends and well, frankly, I’m a little nervous.  I love ministering in our own church.  I know our folks and I love them and anyone who comes in the door who is new is at least a friend in the making.  It’s home.  But now I’m being asked by the Lord to go to 2 other cities and give them what He gives me for them, not really knowing them or how they will receive what Robin and I say.  That’s a bit nerve wracking! And I know I can’t do it on my own!  Hey, I don’t have what it takes at home, let alone somewhere else with people who are culturally different than I am.  It’s beyond me.  But isn’t that good?  Shouldn’t we consider that we don’t really have it so all together in life and turn to the Lord for His supply?  Yes, I think so.  So uncomfortable as life’s opportunities can be sometimes, we can be successful in what we do if we seek the Lord for the supply we need at the right time.  His grace is sufficient for the ordinary or the extraordinary.  I won’t be sufficient in myself, but He gives His great sufficiency to those who rely on Him.  And I can be comfortable with relying on Him.  As long as He’s with us, we can do anything any one of us is called to do.  PB

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Just Cross the Room?

Wednesday, October 17th, 2007

handshake.jpgI’ve been thinking about outreach and that “E” word, evangelism.  I know, it conjures up all kinds of thoughts, mostly fearful ones, and include an image of guys standing on the street corner with bullhorns, shouting at passerbys.  Is that really what we should be thinking about when it comes to reaching beyond ourselves to those who don’t know Him?  Do we fall into the same category as the folks who knock on your door and try to engage you in religious conversation with no relationship?  No, but we do cringe at the thought of becoming like that.  And rightly so, I think.

Jesus told us to go and tell the world about Him, beginning with those closest to us geographically.  But how do we do that?  By being real.  And by honestly caring about someone else, anyone else, enough that we would just ”cross the room” as Bill Hybels puts it, and say hello.  Jesus cared with compassion that few of us have.  His compassion drove Him to obedience on the Cross.  Is is possible that with a measure of His compassion that we could care enough about others to the point that we would temporarily leave our friends and find a way to establish a friendship that could lead to that person’s changed eternity?  How I would love for that to be all of our lifestyles.  PB 

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Changes

Friday, October 12th, 2007

Fall’s here and finally, after a long and beautiful summer, we’ve got our clouds and cool weather back.  The seasons have changed, even though they changed on the calendar before this point.  I used to work outdoors in the tree care industry before my ministry days and I had a vested interest in those seasonal changes, much more than I do now.  I knew what was around the corner when the weather got cooler…

But now I’m more concerned with people changes.  And do people change!  Especially these days.  We’ve just sent the Zagata family to South Carolina for a new job situation, after John had searched for 2 and a half years for a job here in New York.  Honest?  I don’t like that kind of change.  The kind where people you love have to move away and move out of your everyday sphere.  It feels, well, kind of bittersweet. 

And yet the Lord has promised us all something.  He said in Romans 8.28 that He sees to it that “all things” work out for the good for believers, if we just simply hold out for His final say.  Have you lost someone?  Have you had people situations, situations themselves, change in some way that you don’t like?  The promise is this: He will work out (even) seeming losses so that in the end you’ll have to say, yes, that was good.  Can we trust Him?  Absolutely!  So place that change squarely in His lap and breathe a sigh of relief.  Change will be good.  PB

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When tough things happen

Thursday, October 4th, 2007

I received an email today from a friend of ours in Romania, Pastor Stefi Micliuc.  He has been someone we have supported for many years and leads a great local church in Tirgu Mores.  I realize that doesn’t mean a lot to many of you, but take it from those of us who know him, Stefi is a sincere Christian leader and a good guy, a husband and father.  Stefi wrote to let me know that their oldest son, Luci, was taken to a local hospital with a congenital problem with the blood vessels in his brain.  Luci is having a hard time seeing, is feeling weak and sick and the prognosis is unknown.  Please pray for this young man and his family!

But really, doesn’t it make you think twice when you see Christian people run into difficult problems?  I mean afterall, shouldn’t knowing God result in His protection from all that?  A woman that Robin and I know has had tragedy and difficulty in her life as of late.  She asked us the same kind of question: does God really protect us?  Actually, the answer is a resounding “yes!”.  It’s not that God prevents difficulty.  We generally bring that upon ourselves while exercising whatever free will He has given us as a race.  God overcomes difficulty.  He restrains evil and difficulty so that it’s never what it could be.  And then to His people He promises to work it all out so that in the end it becomes good.  For us and for His purposes. 

So back to Luci and Stefi and their family.  Will God work this painful difficulty out so that in the end it becomes good?  Absolutely.  I don’t know how, and neither do they, but it will work out for good.  God is the One Who will make sure of that.  Pray for those in the middle of difficulties and watch what He will do when He writes the end of the story.  PB 

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